9307 Tropico Drive, La Mesa, CA 91941
​619-206-0590
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8:30-3:30 Mon - Fri
​$95/day 
       Rebecca's Retreat is a licensed senior daycare program offering your loved one a safe and secure, fun and enriching day out while you, the CAREGIVER, receive  the much needed RESPITE care you need.
        We have been serving the La Mesa, East county San Diego  area since 2013.  Rebecca "Becky" has been working in senior care  for over 25 years... owning Her own Alzheimer's Dementia care facilities from 1999 to 2006. 
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As noted from the fine folks at Helpguide.org,  " the challenges of caring for an elderly, or chronically ill can be a demanding job and no one is equipped to do it alone.  Respite care provides short-term breaks that can relieve stress, restore energy, and promote balance in your life."
 
 Our first and foremost goal is to offer loving enriched care for seniors with dignity and respect and to instill a joy for living in the moment.  

 We offer an enriching program of activities which transcends the physical and emotional pain that often comes with the losses and challenges of aging, especially for those with memory loss. 

 We  actually partner with the family caregiver to improve the overall well-being of the elderly client while enhancing the quality of life for the senior along with giving the  caregiver the respite they need and deserve.  
 Our entire team of care facilitators are deeply committed to meeting those needs.

 Moreover, for seniors who have experienced a period of apathy after an illness, death of a loved one or another major  life changing / altering event, we know first hand that  senior day programs like Rebecca's Retreat can provide a renewed interest in life.
 
  We welcome the opportunity to earn your trust and deliver you the best  and caring service in the industry for your loved ones".  
~ Becky 

FAQ 

Does your program care for people with impaired memory loss consistent with Alzheimer's Disease?

  • Yes, Almost all of our clients have some type of cognitive impairment.    
  • Our program is licensed through Community Care licensing with a special designation for dementia care.  
  • Our days are designed to keep our participants' minds and bodies active, lessening the symptoms of sun downing and ​hopefully slowing the progression of the dementia.
  • We are also on the list of approved day programs with Alzheimer's San Diego.   

Do you accept Medi-Cal or other government funding?  

  • ​No. We are a private pay program.
  • Check your long-term insurance as some policies cover respite care. 
  • A full day is $95 per day. 

What are your hours? 

  • We are open Monday thru Friday 8:30-3:30 pm.
  • We are closed some holidays. 

How do I apply for consideration? 

  1. Please Contact us.   You may send an email,  fill out our contact form or reach us by phone.  
  2. Once we connect and agree that  you and your loved one could benefit from our program - We then begin the assessment process. 
  3.  Potential clients will begin the process  by attending two assessment days.
  4.  Plan for your loved  one to spend approximately 3 hours (11am - 2pm) each assessment day at "the Retreat."  
  5. There is a one time, non-refundable assessment charge of $165.
  6.  All of the required paperwork to apply can be found on this link. 
  7. Thank you for the opportunity to meet  you and your loved one.

What makes  Rebecca's Retreat Senior Day Program different? 

  • Unlike most day programs, "the Retreat"  operates from the owner's personal residence.  
  • The home is warm, inviting  and is a comfortable environment.
  • Most seniors suffer from the negative effects of Vitamin D which causes lethargy and in extreme cases, cognition problems. The  environment and surroundings allows for the majority of our time to be spent outdoors.
  • Our program facilitators are all college educated, are CPR trained  and most importantly,  have a driving passion for the betterment  & wellbeing of others.  

What are some of the daily activities you provide? 

 Activities at the Retreat  are adapted to meet the needs of our clientele, including those with visual impairment and ambulation limitations.  A sampling of these activities are:    
  • Small group discussions which allows for reminiscing and story-telling.    
  • Chair exercises, ball toss & games using hand/eye coordination activities. 
  • Painting, woodwork, arts & crafts. 
  • Crossword puzzles, word scramble games, cards & more. 
Roger & Becky enjoying another beautiful day at the Retreat
Roger & Becky enjoying another beautiful day at the Retreat
Ruth's sweet spirit is contagious.
Ruth's sweet spirit is contagious.
Woody has the best smile
Woody has the best smile
Leitha (99) & Jewel (103) on our morning stroll through the garden
Leitha (99) &Jewel (104) leading us on our morning stroll

My schedule changes week to week. Am I locked into certain days?

  • Yes....and No.  We do require a commitment of at least two set days per week.
  • Our licensing restricts the number of participants on any given day.
  • We are happy to oblige adding a day if we are not at capacity.    

Do you offer transportation? 

  • Many clients have set up Uber accounts to have their loved ones picked up and dropped off.   
  • We are happy to look into all potential possibilities to get your loved one here safely.​

Testimonials

People with Dementia need socialization. It is so easy to let them sit at home.  The caregivers treat my mother with respect.  She looks forward to the days she spends with her friends and it gives me time to catch up on the things."  
~ Tommie,  Jewel's daughter ( Jewel is our oldest senior @ 104 years young ) 
"Having my mother at the retreat gave me peace of mind . She was "not happy" at first, but once she saw AND felt that this was like a home away from home, she looked forward to being there  - connecting with friends, getting exercise and being challenged each day with the crossword puzzles.  
Now that I can no longer care for my mother at home, I feel the decision and transition was so much easier because of the trusting relationship my mother and I had with Sue and Becky, they knew EXACTLY what facility was right for MY mom without having to drive me to places that would not be a right fit.  
 I trust them explicitly and can’t say enough wonderful things about the staff, the Retreat itself and the placement services." Thank you! 
~Nancy,  Virginia's daughter   ​

Client Admission Forms

Please click links below
to print*, sign and return:
1. Physicians report
2. Emergency information
3. POLST form ( Info ) 
3. Personal rights
4. The Retreat admission agreement 
5. The Retreat personal history and preferences 
6. Photo/Audio/Video Permission 
(opt in)
 *We are very conscientious about the environment at "the Retreat," however, due to licensing and health regulations, we will need you to provide us with signed hard copies of  the forms.  
Thank you for your understanding  & cooperation ~ "Becky"

Famous quotes we love  

"Getting older is no problem. You just have to live long enough."   
​~ Groucho Marx
"Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad. "
​~Miles Kingston 
"Don't get all weird about getting older! Our age is merely the number of years the world has been enjoying us!! "
​~Maxine 
"Old is the new  - New." 
"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects."
~A. Einstein